When Anger Sets In…

Another day. Another upset.

All these losses outweighing gains

Point a finger at you for blame

In a maze of frustration,

playing a never-ending game

Will I ever be okay?

Loss of hope

Increased anger

A sip of this drank

will help the bitter..

You think your differences make you better than me?!

You can’t help

If I listen to you I’ll lose my integrity

I’ll be fine, just let me punch this wall

I’ll become better with time

I think I’m fine…

Anger, Anger, and MORE Anger!

Your anger is your greatest weakness, but your biggest strength. It seems that you only get heard if you raise your voice/fist/gun. Such a shame that the gender who brings the seeds of life is targeted as the enemy. Your anger is left to grow like moth on a tree pointing north. Self-medicating is not helping it subside. What can stop this useless growth of destruction?

Man is biologically described as being the species of greater strength. You are at the top of the food chain. Having such a high rank leads to constant pressures to get the worse out of you. Its seems being an alpha or beta still doesn’t solve your anger issues.

Being too alpha results in having many friends, but even more enemies. Being a beta only leads to you being a doormat, and you won’t ever get your voice heard with that. Where’s the middle ground?

“Understand the importance of self-respect.” — Theresa M.

Self-Respect

You must learn that you will forever be wrongly accused. Understand the importance of self-respect. Self-respect leads to seeing the world that’s against you a lot clearer. For example, if you’re a ladies’ man who gets sexual favors from any woman you want, this can seem like the best life to live. Instead, it’s a threat to your livelihood.

Its often a double-standard to how man and woman carry themselves in dating. A man can do what he wants and the woman must stay private and committed. This is untrue. A man must respect his body just how a virgin does before her wedding day. Back in the day, there would be a great debate on this. But we live in a different world now. You live in an age that is individualistic. These people don’t care about you. All men hold power, and power makes money. Once you try to enforce that power with emotions (anger), you will not have protection from the higher forces.

Respect yourself and you will do the same unto others. Being a man in today’s world requires patience, focus, knowledge and wisdom. You can’t act off impulse. Be aware of more than your surroundings. Be the last to speak, and the first to listen.